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Thursday, September 5, 2013

Visit Nightmare

SO, I know how this bio-parent visit thing is supposed to work....but today I am beyond frustrated and angry.  I was on my way to pick the kiddos up from a 1-hour supervised visit (in the office) when I got a TEXT from the worker...asking me "Where are you? MOM just took an earring out of her ear and pierced Little Bit's ear"

I have to admit...my first response was probably not very Christian-like at all.  SO... I will give you the tame version of: OH MY GOODNESS!!!! WHAT??????? ARE YOU FRIGGIN' KIDDING ME???? AND YOU WORKER DIDNT STOP THAT?!?!?!?!?!!

I have to admit, I do not get for the life of me how during a supposed supervised visit that was allowed to even happen.  And why is that even remotely ok?  And on what planet, at what moment, could make a mother think that was an 'ok' thing to do to her son.....??  At any point - let alone after this kiddo hasn't had an earring in his ear for 18+ months?!  Geez-louise....I know how bad my ear hurts when I don't have an earring in for a week!!!

DO YOU HEAR THAT??????  Yeah, I think it was my heart shattering (once again) into a million pieces.  I can't even imagine what it must be like to have your mother - the one person in the world that is suppose to protect you - cause that much pain.  UUUUUGGGGGHHH!!!!!





***Footnote to this....at least there was a drug test done after this behavior...and yes it was positive for methamphetamines.  So I guess, that is on what planet, under what conditions on might do that.


Breaks. My. Heart.